Why a Veteran Find's it More Difficult Returning Back to Civilian Life than Joining the Military

The average Veteran spent 18 years or more in civilian life before joining the military. Their time in the military could be two to four years or some opt for the twenty years and retire. Why was it easier to be in the service than to return to civilian life?

Since 1973 after the end of the draft, all those entering the Military service joined freely. Those before this time had trouble also returning to civilian life. To understand the problem we need to look at the whole journey from civilian life, entering the military, and back to civilian life.

We who were born in this country and live relatively free lives. Only your parents, teachers, boss and spouse could tell you what to do. There was a reaction if you did not do it. One could wear anything, eat when were hungry and wanted, call in sick or quit your job. You gave that and more in join the military, why? Was it to escape pressure, impress a girl, or could not find a job, or for many other reasons?

Entering the military one takes their physical exam then gets transportation to basic training with about twenty or more others. Throughout your military life you had 20 or more peers going through it with you. You had to wear what they told you, eat what they gave you, make your bed, and other duties that you had no choice, but again you were always with your peers.

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About 28% of the military is afraid to return back to civilian life. The causes vary from coming home with guilt and shame because of what was required in combat, only to be afraid you no longer fit in at home. You may not be able to get a job or settle down on your own.

You may have come home alone but our civilians and especially your fellow veterans welcome you home. The VA will help you if you ask them for their service. Also the various Veteran organizations are setup to be there for you and help you find a job, answer your questions, etc. Understand that as Veterans they have experienced the same issues. They have already been through most of the same problems. Just about all the Veteran organizations publish a newsletter listing different jobs available here in Suffolk Co. Some include federal, state and additional employment. In addition, remember that you are eligible for the GI Bill that includes going back to school and learning a career. You served our country so now let the country serve you. Veterans who are already home are here to help you settle back into civilian life.